How to deal with my boyfriend coming home from prison?
My boyfriend has been in prison for the past 6 years. We been together for the past 8 months. He comes home soon. But he doesn’t know that I been having sex with someone else while he’s been incarcerated. He believes that I’ve been faithful to him during our relationship, but I haven’t. And I feel extremely guilty about it because I truly do love him. Do I tell him the truth? Or just keep it to myself?
If you and this man are to have any kind of relationship you are going to have to be up front with him as soon as he comes home. This means before you have sex with him take the high road and tell him you need to talk him about something important.
Sit with him and tell him you respect him too much to not to let him know you were with someone else while he was away.
If it is over, than tell him. Make certain you have put it (the other man) in the past.
Nothing good can come from you holding this from him. Tell him, if you love him, that it is time to start your future fresh. New beginnings. He cannot look in the past and neither can you. Wounds never heal when we pick at them. He is not perfect and neither are you. If he really loves you he will understand this, for you are human.
If he goes nuts than you must walk away from this man. He is not for you.
I have a feeling he will understand.
God Bless you both!
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