I have a question.
I met a guy from a dating website and we've been texting daily. He said he wanted to meet me in person so I said yes.
He chose the date and we were going to meet one time but his grandmother had a fall So we couldn't meet on that day.
He texted me saying want to try again to meet me in person so I said ok again. The second trial, we were going to meet last weekend. but he just stops responding on that day...Since then he stopped texting me.. does this mean he gave up on me?
It's a weird feeling... he used to text me every day at a certain time but now all disappeared.
he is a medical student so I assume he has a busy schedule... but it's been 4 days we haven't texted to each other
what does this mean..?
Free Dating Advice From Karla
How to deal with the disappearing act with guys.
This behavior means that you are not quite a priority. If he is in medical school I can assure you he is under colossal demands. Remember you need to manage yourself in a way brings him closer to you not repelling him away. Don't take any of my input or his behavior personally. My recommendation would be to let him go. If he texts you do not respond for a full 24 hours. When you do text him be very nice and polite. Never indicating you are annoyed with him. He will probably text or call at some point to see if you are still interested. This is where you need to play chess and get your power back by letting him know, indirectly, you are not that into him. If you cannot do this he is going to have emotional power over you and you will be susceptible to becoming a bit strung out in your mind. Meaning he can treat you like a toy.